When we meet we’ll do some paperwork, including necessary information to register the death and so on. In looking forward and planning ahead of a death, we’ll do this paperwork at an appropriate time.

If you’re looking at a vigil we’ll consider how long for, the house and how things might be set up, and other practicalities.

I knew my wife wanted me to work with Annie once the inevitability of her death became obvious. What I had no clue about was the pivotal role she would play in making sure that her wishes were fulfilled, while ensuring that I was able to get through the most difficult time of my life. In the final days Annie’s patient discussions with me, and her instinctive understanding about how these wishes could be practically achieved made all the difference.


Knowledgeable about funeral service law/logistics, and a highly skilled facilitator, Annie can provide what almost every family needs when it comes to dealing with the loss of a loved one – the space to make good decisions